my husband and I have been married for almost 14 yrs. I found out recently that he's been a porn, sex addict the entire time. he has put ads on Craigslist with a dick pic, set up emails looking for cheating websites, phone sex, etc. three yrs ago a real person answered his ad, and they were talking for 3-4 months before I found out. over the past three yrs after counseling, self help books etc.. ..